Domestic Violence Awareness Month: Know Your Rights, Protect Your Family
Every October, Domestic Violence Awareness Month serves as a crucial reminder of the ongoing crisis of domestic abuse in our communities. At Simonetti & Associates, a trusted Long Island divorce and family law firm, we are committed to helping victims of domestic violence understand their legal rights and take steps to protect themselves and their families.
Whether you’re seeking a protection order, considering divorce, or navigating custody and separation agreements, our experienced attorneys are here to support you during this difficult time.
What Is Domestic Violence?
Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another partner. It can include:
- Physical abuse
- Emotional or psychological abuse
- Sexual abuse
- Financial control
- Threats or intimidation
Abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of gender, age, or socioeconomic status. If you or a loved one is experiencing abuse, know that legal protection and support are available.
Legal Protections Available to Victims in New York
At Simonetti & Associates, we help clients obtain immediate legal protection from their abusers. In New York, there are several legal tools available, including:
Orders of Protection
Also known as restraining orders, these court-issued directives can prohibit an abuser from contacting or approaching the victim. An order of protection can also:
- Grant temporary custody of children.
- Remove the abuser from the shared home.
- Require the abuser to surrender firearms.
We can assist you in filing for an order of protection in either family court or criminal court, depending on your specific situation.
Filing for Divorce Due to Domestic Violence
If domestic violence is present in your marriage, it can be grounds for divorce under New York law. Our Long Island divorce lawyers can assist you with:
- Filing for fault-based divorce
- Securing emergency custody of children
- Requesting exclusive use of the marital residence
- Protecting your assets during the division of property
How Domestic Violence Affects Child Custody and Visitation
When determining child custody and visitation rights, New York family courts always prioritize the best interests of the child. If there is evidence of domestic violence, the court may:
- Deny the abusive parent custody or visitation.
- Require supervised visitation
- Order parenting classes or counseling.
- Take past and ongoing abuse into account in all decisions.
Our attorneys at Simonetti & Associates work tirelessly to ensure that children are not placed in dangerous or unhealthy environments.
Fathers’ Rights in Domestic Violence Cases
While domestic violence disproportionately affects women, men can also be victims. We understand that fathers’ rights must be protected, especially in situations involving false allegations.
Our attorneys are experienced in representing fathers who are either victims of domestic violence or are wrongfully accused. We fight to ensure that our clients maintain fair custody and visitation rights while also protecting their legal and emotional well-being.
Pre- and Postnuptial Agreements: A Preventive Tool
Though often overlooked, prenups and postnups can help protect individuals financially in abusive relationships. These legal documents:
- Define how assets are divided in the event of a divorce.
- Provide financial security for victims of abuse.
- Can be drafted or modified to reflect new circumstances.
Our legal team can assist you in drafting or reviewing these agreements with care and discretion.
What to Do If You’re Experiencing Domestic Violence
If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 911. After ensuring your safety, take the following steps:
- Seek shelter – Contact local domestic violence shelters or hotlines for assistance.
- Document everything – Keep records of abuse (texts, photos, injuries).
- Speak with a lawyer – Legal guidance is crucial to protect your rights.
- File for an order of protection – Our attorneys can assist you through this process quickly and discreetly.
- Consider your legal options – Whether it’s divorce, child custody, or property division, we are here to help.
Why Choose Simonetti & Associates?
With decades of experience serving families throughout Long Island, Simonetti & Associates is a leading divorce and family law firm dedicated to compassionate, client-focused representation. We handle sensitive domestic violence cases with:
- Discretion and confidentiality
- In-depth knowledge of New York family law
- Aggressive representation in and out of court
- A focus on protecting the safety and interests of children
Contact a Long Island Divorce Lawyer Today
Domestic violence can have devastating effects on individuals and families—but you don’t have to face it alone. At Simonetti & Associates, we are committed to helping you regain control of your life through trusted legal guidance. Contact us for a free consultation.




